{"id":57163,"date":"2025-01-01T20:04:52","date_gmt":"2025-01-01T20:04:52","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T22:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/?p=57163","title":{"rendered":"Before and after"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@eyecandyhair\/video\/7455024481770261792\" data-video-id=\"7455024481770261792\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" >\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@eyecandyhair\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@eyecandyhair?refer=embed\">@eyecandyhair<\/a> <a title=\"bald\" target=\"_blank\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/bald?refer=embed\">#bald<\/a> <a title=\"baldgirl\" target=\"_blank\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/baldgirl?refer=embed\">#baldgirl<\/a> <a title=\"newlook\" target=\"_blank\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/newlook?refer=embed\">#newlook<\/a> <a title=\"newlookhair\" target=\"_blank\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/newlookhair?refer=embed\">#newlookhair<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"? original sound  - extremehaircut.com\" target=_exhc_blog_ href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-extremehaircutcom-7455024592844131104?refer=embed\">? original sound  &#8211; extremehaircut.com<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s why\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Firstly I had always wanted to experience having a shaved head.<br \/>\nIt would be fun and new and weird haha.<\/p>\n<p>But more importantly I wanted to challenge myself to stop caring about my hair and my appearance so much.<br \/>\nTo stop putting so much value on my hair and appearance.<br \/>\nI have value no matter what I look like and jo matter how much hair I have.<\/p>\n<p>As a woman there seems to be a lot of importance put on us to have \u201cgood\u201d hair. It hugely impacts our view of our beauty and femininity, and I think how we view ourselves.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s part of our identity.<br \/>\nWhich I definitely understand and have experienced it my whole life as a girl.<\/p>\n<p>But I think sometimes it\u2019s good to challenge your thinking.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing really stopping me from doing it (for years) was the fear of what others would think of me, and if I\u2019d look ugly. Haha<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t do scary things often but I\u2019m trying to work on that.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to encourage you, if you are like me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let fear be the thing that stops you from doing what you want to.<\/p>\n<p>If the only reason you won\u2019t try something is because you are afraid (practicalities and safety aside) then maybe it\u2019s time to do it?<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to live a life or make decisions governed by fear.<\/p>\n<p>Fear is real and important, but if it\u2019s fear of others opinions, fear of embarrassment, fear of failing or letting yours down, it\u2019s not helping you or keeping you safe.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s holding you back.<\/p>\n<p>I really really struggle with this and am quite a fearful and anxious person.<br \/>\nBut I\u2019m consciously making an effort to not let fear be the deciding factor in my decision making.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully this encourages you if you are a scaredy cat too\ud83d\ude05<\/p>\n<div style='visibility: hidden;' tag=''><\/div>\n<div style='text-align:center' class='yasr-auto-insert-visitor'><!--Yasr Visitor Votes Shortcode--><div id='yasr_visitor_votes_431dd70569426' class='yasr-visitor-votes'><div class=\"yasr-custom-text-vv-before yasr-custom-text-vv-before-57163\">Click to rate this post!<\/div><div id='yasr-vv-second-row-container-431dd70569426'\r\n                                        class='yasr-vv-second-row-container'><div id='yasr-visitor-votes-rater-431dd70569426'\r\n                                      class='yasr-rater-stars-vv'\r\n                                      data-rater-postid='57163'\r\n                                      data-rating='3.9'\r\n                                      data-rater-starsize='24'\r\n                                      data-rater-readonly='false'\r\n                                      data-rater-nonce='bd47993089'\r\n                                      data-issingular='false'\r\n                                    ><\/div><div class=\"yasr-vv-stats-text-container\" id=\"yasr-vv-stats-text-container-431dd70569426\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"20\" height=\"20\"\r\n                                   class=\"yasr-dashicons-visitor-stats\"\r\n                                   data-postid=\"57163\"\r\n                                   id=\"yasr-stats-dashicon-431dd70569426\">\r\n                                   <path d=\"M18 18v-16h-4v16h4zM12 18v-11h-4v11h4zM6 18v-8h-4v8h4z\"><\/path>\r\n                               <\/svg><span id=\"yasr-vv-text-container-431dd70569426\" class=\"yasr-vv-text-container\">[Total: <span id=\"yasr-vv-votes-number-container-431dd70569426\">21<\/span>  Average: <span id=\"yasr-vv-average-container-431dd70569426\">3.9<\/span>]<\/span><\/div><div id='yasr-vv-loader-431dd70569426' class='yasr-vv-container-loader'><\/div><\/div><div id='yasr-vv-bottom-container-431dd70569426' class='yasr-vv-bottom-container'><\/div><\/div><!--End Yasr Visitor Votes Shortcode--><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>@eyecandyhair #bald #baldgirl #newlook #newlookhair ? original sound &#8211; extremehaircut.com Here\u2019s why\u2026 Firstly I had always wanted to experience having a shaved head. It would be fun and new and weird haha. But more importantly I wanted to challenge myself &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/?p=57163\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27,197,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-before-after","category-buzz-cut","category-video"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":21,"sum_votes":81},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=57163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57163\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=57163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=57163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haircutfetish.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=57163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}